South Africa is a very unique place, in Africa for sure but also more broadly in history/world affairs. I probably won't get all the history right, but it was only in the 1990s that apartheid ended, and it's taken even longer for racial integration to really take root. It's weird because the English and Dutch abolished slavery a while back (even before it was abolished in the US), but the ruling elite of SA were comprised of wealthy whites who did all they could (and rather ridiculously, in retrospect) to maintain social/class divisions along racial lines. Clearly integration after many many years of segregation takes a long time -- the change in the legal books has to be followed by fairly radical changes in the hearts and minds of the people (thanks,
Bailey, for the phrase). In the US, for example,
Brown v Board of Ed ruled in 1954 that public schools could not be segregated, that "separate but equal" was not even pretending to be equal. And even today, years later, schools (like
my own, no doubt - maybe one black family in the whole school when I was there?) have
de facto segregation (laudations to
Jyo's school, for bussing innovations).
But South Africa is wholly different -- the apartheid laws were *not even meant* to have people be equal, only to have them separated. It's appalling to think about how/why the international community allowed this to remain in place *well* into the end of the 20th century. And because of the slow legal forces of change, the change in people's attitudes has been even slower. Now, I should back up and say that Cape Town is one of the most vibrant, multicultural, colorful cities I know (and certainly in Africa). A lot of great research comes from the University here that affects people of all walks of life (I gave Journal Club on
this article re: pre-exposure prophylaxis, one of whose sites was Cape Town). But we've all (Didi, Neeti and I) experienced subtle attitudes towards us that make us question -- for only the second time in my life, the other being Japan -- whether we're being treated differently because of the color of our skin. It's unnerving, and in some ways has diminished my experience here. That being said, there are some pretty amazing people here whose stories I'll get to later (to end with my endless optimism, or course :).
A few examples of the former -- the first night we were at Asoka, the fantastic jazz place, we were initially turned down for a table. It was 8.15p, the jazz was going to start at 9, so we thought we'd actually be a little early. But apparently, the waitress said, "we're completely booked, and the waiting list is really long; I don't think you'll be able to get a table." We finally asked to be placed on the waiting list anyway, opting to sit at the bar until that table opened up (we were quite willing to just order our food at the bar and wait it out, so that at least we could hear the jazz). She was very brusque, as if we were not really interesting enough to stoop to conversation with. We sat down, made ourselves comfortable, asked for menus, and were vigorously debating our appetizers when the waitress came back very suddenly and told us that a table just opened up for us. It had been only 3 or 4 minutes...
She was white, of course. Looking around, there was only one other colored group in the entire restaurant. Sure, it could have been a last minute cancellation, but she hadn't even entertained that possibility when she first saw us. It was really annoying, this manner of dismissing us...it was weird because, I think, we were among the better dressed people there, and we clearly were willing to spend money on the dinner, so I don't know why she would have treated us like that. In any case, the actual waitress we got was very nice, and we had a really nice evening of jazz after that.
And today I went to the famed
Clarke's Books because it caught my eye as I was on my way to breakfast (needless to say...I spent so much time in there that breakfast never happened, and I had an excellent veggie burger at Royale Eatery instead!). As I was going in, an elderly white woman was entering before me, and I attempted to catch the door before she closed it on me. It was a weird interaction; you do have to ring the doorbell to enter/exit the store (as a safeguard against shoplifter, presumably), and I can only guess that she was slightly suspicious of me entering behind her without ringing the doorbell on my own. Which is weird, but whatever. Then, literally as I was halfway through the threshold of the door, she turned around very quickly and asked me in an impertinent voice, "Yes, Can I help you?" I must have looked slightly shocked, if not outright offended at her insinuations (whatever those were), and she repeated in a softer tone, "I work here." I told her I was just coming in to browse, and she said, "You can go upstairs too, but you have to give me your bag before going up." Now, that policy was posted on the door, so I was fine with it, but I was annoyed that she singled me out (there were three other, white, people in the store) and repeated that to me, as if otherwise I would have gone up there to shoplift her books. I decided to give her the benefit of the doubt -- maybe she's just rude to everyone, maybe she just had a huge shoplifting last week, maybe she's just having a bad day. But it took me a while, almost a half hour, before I felt okay after that. I did enjoy Clarke's -- it was wholly unlike Book Lounge (Brookline Booksmith's equivalent), but similar to, of all things, the library at Wadham College, Oxford. The entire upstairs was a second hand book store, and it had the faint musty/dusty smell of an old English library. Things were also really well organized on the shelves; nevertheless there were piles and piles of books seemingly randomly strewn everywhere. I picked up two interesting books; one called "Playing God," which feeds into my unsupported but vigorously argued case for the Great Man theory of history (it's a book about 7 pivotal meetings between influencial historical men and how they changed the world). The other is "Breakfast with Socrates," philosophical musings about what famous writers/thinkers might say about mundane things like going to the work, or to the doctor. I'm excited to read these between Le Carre and Larsson on the long plane ride home.
We have also met some fairly incredible people here. Really nice locals, all involved in the tourist industry in some capacity (maybe it's self-fulfilling?). I already wrote about the Marine Dynamics people who were really nice (and the captain of our boat later sent Didi, Neeti, and me a few of his "special" snapshots (low resolution, unfortunately) -- really cool pictures of the sharks he's been tracking). Yesterday our tour guide was really nice, but just an amazing person. Apparently he was born to poor slightly-less-than-caring parents, who just thought their son was stupid until he was 10 years old, when someone finally figured out that he wasn't stupid, but deaf. He had gotten through life just lip-reading before then, and finally had a very simple surgical procedure to retore (actually, to *give*) him the gift of sound. The first words he heard out of his own mouth were "Can I have some ice cream?" :) He was told not to swim, play sport, or do anything that might imbalance his ears; of course he took this as a challenge and became an expert swimmer, doing 50 olympic-size laps in the local pool every morning. Then, at age 16, he developed mastoiditis (unrelated, maybe, to the swimming?) and was told by a doctor that he would die within 1 month. He got IV antibiotics, however, and had a miraculous recovery from his septic state after a radical temporal bone resection, and he did really well post-operatively. He grew up more comfortable in the bush than on streets, so developed a great relationship with animals like ostritches and vervet monkeys. He did odds and ends, until a friend suggested he become a clown, which he did for the better part of a decade before he got tired of the little kids kicking his leg (he had a bad left leg, from a previous accident). He quit, and became a tour guide instead, because he loved meeting new people and learning new things about the world. He was a really cool guy, and he played different types of music for us throughout, and tried to give a flavor for what Cape Town is really like. Very inspiring guy too; you can tell he loves what he's doing now because he really has a passion for it.
Anyway, I've rambled on too long now. I have to head back to the apartment, get an inventory of our supplies, and then head to the grocery store. I'm cooking dinner for Didi and Neeti tonight, and hope to have it ready by the time they get back from their
safari. Dinner will be simple; some apricot cheese fresh from Fairview Farms with grapes and crackers to start, then the famous grilled eggplant parmesan (white and red sauce, grilled peppers mixed in) that I always make. Dunno about dessert yet.
Leaving you with a few images from last night -- sunset over Camp's Bay.

Then a reflection of that view from a combi/minibus.